If any of you have spoken to me, you probably know, I don’t have the best luck with guys, or any luck for that matter.
So, when there is a guy who vies for your attention, it’s kind of nice.
But there reaches a point where you realize you need to say no, because you don’t really like him, you just like the attention.
My point is, the moment you realize that, you’ve begun to grow up and see what you like and don’t like in a guy.
So, say no, and don’t let him continue to talk to you if you’re not interested. It’s bad to lead him on, because he always has that glimmer of hope and he refuses to give up.
The sad thing is, this is not the first time this has happened to me, and it gets to be really difficult, because to stop the guy from talking to you about things you’re not comfortable with, you usually have to do something drastic. I’ve had to block friends on facebook, which is a big deal for me, and completely cut the guys out of my life. And that’s not something that I do, I’m a nice person, I talk to everyone.
Anyway, my point is… make your decisions clear. Don’t let someone in just because you want the attention no matter how hard it is.
You will get the attention you deserve when the time comes. There is someone out there for everyone, and I’m not saying this because I’m someone who is happily with someone right now, I’m not. I just have faith that I will find him, he is out there and I will be with him someday, but for now I’m going to be happy with my life.
Happy as an Acting Major at University of the Arts in Philadelphia, a wonderful dream that i’ve always hoped for. Happy to have a plan when I graduate to move out to LA with my amazing friend Aryn. Happy to have a job with the amazing Young Actors’ Theatre Camp in Northern California. Happy to have the people in my life that I have. Happy to be an Admin of the DCST.
…before they screw you.
I’ll find one that’s not a jerk soon enough.